7 weeks postpartum and sex HURTS!

I know it’s normal. But I wanna know how long it’s going to last. 😫 I got cleared for sex and everything, so it’s not like I have some underlying issue. Whenever we have sex, I get sore like 10 minutes in and then I’m sore for the next 2-3 days. I had an episiotomy and that’s where I get the most sore. But also, during sex, I feel kind of like I’m being rubbed raw? I’m plenty wet, so it’s not like I’m not “ready”. What was everyone’s experience with how long this lasts?!