My nerves

Ugh I just cant get excited enough, after a mc 2 months ago and now I'm almost 9 weeks. My mom is talking about turning the basement into a suite, my SO is asking me how the baby is . Omg I dont know . All I can say is "oh we will see after our scan" it's making me super emotional. I dont want to get ramped up for nothing . Even though the baby at 5w6d had a slow hb. I'm still very sensitive.. when is the time to get excited and start planning ?????? ? I hate putting everyone on hold..even myself..😔😓