My husband and I have been married a few months and both of us did not have sex before marriage. We are having a difficult time putting him in.... any advice? This may seem silly to some maybe. We enjoy our naughty time but have not been able to go all the way. We both want kiddos and now it's to point where we want to go all the way, not that we didn't before but we kinda wanted to be all natural for our first time and when we were ready to try and have a kiddo. Would appreciate advice very much