How do I make sex not hurt?

Question

Today me and my boyfriend tried to have sex for the first time and it hurt soooooooo bad😫 it was like there was a wall blocking his dick. I couldn’t even stick it in. My hymen is broken but it still hurt. Are there ways to prevent this pain??? Please lmk💕

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Lube. Foreplay.

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Honestly you're just tight which is why it hurts. I have the same problem. After a few thrusts it feels better. Try to use lube and have him finger you before he sticks it in to warm you up.

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Take it slow for sure. I thought for the longest time I was abnormal because of the same problem. I thought I had this wall not allowing my exes dick to fit in me. But then I got with my current man, and the first time didn’t hurt at all. He was so gentle, knew what he was doing. The first couple times didn’t feel any pleasure to myself but after that and once your body is used to this new object in you, it feels sooo good. Just take ur time. Don’t rush!

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I was like that once I thought that there was something wrong with me but over time we kept trying and finally got it

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OMG I GO THRU THE same thing. EVEN when I try to put on a tampon in. I’ve been to the DR and they said it’s nothing and I honestly don’t know what to do.

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Breath and Relax your vagina and let it happen. It will feel good right after. If you tense up it will hurt

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Use lube, something to make yourself more wet. When I had sex I was too tight, he got inside but he couldn't move without hurting me. He went down on me for a while and afterwards I was good to go!

How do I make sex not hurt?

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