I’m 13 weeks and I can actually feel them. I’m hyper aware of my body so I can tell the difference between kick and gas... especially since my kiddo is super active lately. Gas tends to be in one spot and it’s usually pressure near your ass. But baby kicks feel like popcorn popping in different spots. Sometimes it feels like something dragging across my belly. It’s so weirdddd lol of course my baby kicks are super gentle and weak so it’s not nearly as strong as the kicks at 20 weeks. I can’t see it either but I sure as hell feel it... or maybe I’m just going crazy