I’ve been with my boyfriend 6 years. I’ve been falling out of love with him for what I believe to be over a year. But we had a child together and I wanted to make things work. I fell for him all over again during my pregnancy, everything was just so amazing. About 4 months after our son was born my feelings of loneliness came back. I was depressed and my anxiety was through the roof. He did nothing to help me. I soon realized why I fell out of love with him before and it started again. Now, our son is almost a year old and I ended things the middle of June, but we still live together because I cannot afford to move out yet. Plus both of our names are on the lease and we both pay bills so we’re being stubborn about the “who has to move” situation.

August 16th, the day before our 6 year anniversary, he pours his heart out to me. Tells me causing me to feel alone in my own home is going to be his biggest regret even if I do take him back. He says that our family means everything to him and he can’t imagine life without us being together. So I decide to give him one last chance but I told him I’m not in love with him anymore and it’s going to take some time. He agrees to try and make me fall for him again. It’s been about a month and literally every little thing he does pisses me off. I’m not feeling happy, I kinda feel worse honestly. I just really think it’s over, it feels like it’s too late but I feel horrible hurting him. I know he loves me and I really don’t want to break his heart but I don’t want to continue to be unhappy either. Do you ladies think there’s hope for us and I should give it more time? Or should I listen to the way I’m feeling now and just leave?