After almost three months of talking, casual hangouts, hookups, and the like, I finally got the balls to tell this boy that I like him and want to assess our situation.

Backstory is, when we hung out the very first time, I told him I was looking for a relationship, and he told me he had just gotten out of a long-term relationship and just wanted to keep things casual for now, as he wasn’t in the mindset for another relationship at the time. I was cool with that. I’ve been cool with that.

But lately, all I could think about was how much I liked this boy. He is such a sweetheart, he makes me smile and laugh so hard every time we’re together, we’ve met each other’s friends, and he’s genuinely just a fun, positive person to be around. We’ve both opened up about some family/ life stuff, and I feel so comfortable around him. Being around him is just so easy.

Long story short, he says that he really values honesty, and that it’s important to him that we continue to be honest about our feelings for each other, but he’s still trying to see where his feelings are. He said he doesn’t really like talking about the whole label thing, because if it’s going to happen, it should just happen naturally. Which I TOTALLY agree with. However, it’s been almost three months of “letting things happen”... He didn’t outright say “no, I don’t want a relationship,” but he definitely didn’t say “yes, be my girlfriend” either.

It’s about to be that cutesy time of year where everyone wants to be boo’ed up, so I’m hoping (🤞🏻) that if I play my cards right, he’ll make a move once that season really hits. My question is, is he worth the wait? I really feel like he is, I just need some girl advice. 😩