What would you think if your s.o asked

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So my so has a very high sex drive, im 21 weeks pregnant with twins and my drive went down but I still have sex with him. He wants to do it everyday. Today he told me that he thinks I'm this way because I dont want to be with him sexually anymore or that im cheating so he suggested for us to be together but we can have sex with other people. My heart sank. We just had sex 2 days ago, it's not like we go long with out. Why would he even want to be with anyone else if he supposedly loves me

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Fucking douche bag. Tell him no. And demand that he show you some more respect. You're carrying his children. Not just one, but freaking two of them.

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I'd slice is ear off

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What a fucking dickhead. If he believes he should be able to fuck other people because you’re not jumping his bones every day, he doesn’t deserve to be in a relationship.

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I would be absolutely destroyed if my partner ever askd me anything like that. Like most couples we had discussions early on about what we expect from relationships, what we want in life and from our significant other, what love means to us, what our feelings are about infidelity Etc. We both take betrayal very seriously and we are both very much committed to being 100% monogamous. I have to assume that you probably had similar discussions with your SO and it would probably be safe to assume that monogamy is important to you? Him even approaching the subject, feeling strongly enough about it to think that you might be okay with it.....it's a huge red flag and you may want to consider that something may have already happened 🤷 I would be convinced of exactly the same thing as you are if it were my partner, that he doesn't love me anymore or respect me as a partner and the mother of his children. My partner and I both have incredibly high sex drives but since I have been pregnant with our little one we still have sex every couple of days but not every day multiple times like we did before I was pregnant. He completely understands. I will still put in the effort to be with him intimately sometimes even when I'm not feeling great because I want to be with him and make him feel good and I always end up orgasming anyway, but he never pressures or demands this of me or makes me feel like he might look for someone else if I medically can't do it or am too exhausted. I am the same way with him I would say we have an equal number of times where one of us has been sick or tired and the other one just waits patiently because we love each other. Your SO will not die if he doesn't have sex everyday, he should experiencing feelings of love and pleasure from just taking care of you and being there for you while you carry his children. If I were you I would take a step back and consider that if he's capable of and comfortable with asking you to do this, is that someone who you really want in your life? Will you always be concerned about what he's doing now that he has opened this door? I am so sorry you have to go through this especially being pregnant with his children. He is clearly an asshat and is selfish and arrogant and doesn't deserve you ♥

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Oh nauh. Oh no no no . No sir.

He done lost his everlasting mind.  Sex is not that damn important.

Baby I am so sorry you have to deal w. That. He needs a super saiyan throat punch for even coming out his mouth crazy

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What the F... he shouldn’t be saying that to you you are caring his children. No respect for you and your babies... that’s just so rude I am so sorry he said that to you. I would be tripping

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God men piss me off.

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I would fucking murder him then leave him. In that order. What a dumb ass excuse to try and fuck other people. I swear I can't stand men these days. No loyalty no respect.

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I’m sorry but I would end my marriage over a suggestion like that.  I would have divorce papers draw up the next day.  Any man who thinks that’s ok has no business being in my life.

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What a pig. 
My reply would have been, “that’s a great idea?! Let’s also go on dates, cuddle, and kiss other people as well! Fuck off, we’re done”

Please know you’re better than what he is doing to you. If you just simple tell him no and that he hurt your feelings, he will just do it behind your back. Leave him. Now.

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