Advice Please

Update: So after another week of him opening my snaps and not responding (one telling him I found out my mom has leukemia) I sent him a long message about how I can’t continue to talk to him because he is obviously not interested in me at all. He opened it and said nothing. He didn’t delete me off Snapchat. I knew him was keeping me on there because eventually he was going to contact me again. So I start talking to a guy who I had talked to previous to him. We meet up a couple times and we hit it off. Last night while out shopping with a friend I get a snap from the other guy who was ignoring me. He snaps me a picture of him at work and says he gets off at 11. Asks how I’m doing and I’m very short with him. At 11. He starts snapping me again and I continue to be short with him. So he finally stops. Ever since I told him I was done I’ve felt so much better emotionally. Now that he is trying to get back in it’s messing with me...

So I met this guy off of POF and we went on one date the end of June. The date was amazing! All 8 hours of it we spent laughing and having a great time. When I left he sent me a text (while I was still in his driveway) that he had a great time and enjoyed every minute we spent together. He shared with me later that he has problems getting an erection. I tell him I’m okay with that because I genuinely want to spend time with him. I’m not in it for sex. So I’ve been wanting to set up date #2 but he works a lot and lives an hour away. My sister says tell him that you’re moving on and if he’s interested he’ll fight for you. Well he didn’t. He blocked me on everything but POF. I was very hurt. I waited a few days and got on POF again but his profile kept popping up. It hurt to see his face. I messaged him and asked him to block me so I wouldn’t have to keep seeing him. He wouldn’t do it and never responded. Two weeks go by and one drunken night I tell my best friend about his “problem” and she finds him on Facebook and pretty much tells him off and brings it up. I felt so bad because he told me and I told her. I messaged him on POF and apologized. He answered and said it was fine. We talked for an hour or so. I told him I hope he finds who he is looking for and that I do think he is a great guy. He continues to talk to me and I knew I was going to get hurt again if I kept responding. So I just stopped. A couple hours later he starts messaging me again. We’ve been talking every day since that night but still haven’t seen each other. He still has my number blocked and only talks to me on Snapchat. He tells me that he is always busy at work. He keeps telling me that we are going to go out again. Sunday night I snapped him and he replied immediately and from snapmap I could see he was in a town close to mine driving in my direction! I was so excited thinking he was going to surprise me. I snapped him back and he didn’t answer until 1am. It was showing that he was at a house in this town I saw him in before. So I asked what he was up to. Nothing. He didn’t answer me and didn’t open my snap until 3:35 the next afternoon. I haven’t talked to him and he hasn’t said anything to me. We do a lot of sexting and don’t really have a lot of casual conversation...I don’t know what to do...I thought this time was going to be different. Every time we sext he says come over but quickly changes his mind when I say okay. Maybe he’s afraid he can’t preform? Help!