How long have you went

What's the longest time use ladies have been broke up with a bf.... went no contact, no seeing eachother, thinking it was over for good and then found eachother again? I'm missing my ex soooo bad. Like, so so bad. But after going threw a rough patch, he has blocked me, and we haven't spoke in about 4 weeks, we have 3 kids together, but on the days he takes them, we don't even have to see eachother because he picks them up from day care and drops them back at day care. So there's no contact, and no seeing eachother and I'm wondering will we ever cross paths again. He did TRY and make eye contact and speak to me during an appointment for our daughter, but at that point I was still angry and wouldn't acknowledge him. And when the boxing was on at the weekend. I think he tried to ring me on a private number as it was 2.20am and wasnt anyone else I speak to. 😔😔😔 I don't know when I'll see him next, I cant contact him. Wnddon't know if we will ever be together. But I want to be so bad.