I’m 26 weeks, just diagnosed with the flu (in September) and possible bronchitis along with my usual flair up of asthma (someone at work got me sick!) I had a doctors note to not return to work. On top of feeling like I’m dying, I’m also contagious. I will

Get written up even with a doctors note, so I applied for short term disability (fingers crossed). On top of that, my medically fragile son is now sick and my compromised mother caught my cold and passed away from complications (she had end stage COPD) less than a week ago. I have 3 days bereavement, but not anywhere near mentally ready to go back to work. I work in insurance claims and deal with tragedies everyday. I don’t care if it’s unpaid, but so scared I’ll get in trouble or lose my job if I need to take more time. I don’t qualify for FMLA either. Any advice is appreciated.