So I found out 4 weeks ago I was pregnant. I was scared and excited especially since it was a complete surprise. My boyfriend who is 22 was really supportive at first but now I’m 9 weeks and he barely has anything to do with the baby. I have to beg him to look at baby names or to go through any of the baby information binders with me, he only wanted to read what “pertains to him” (which just meant me read it to him) I don’t know what to do I feel like I’m going through this alone. Also, this is my first baby so I’m really struggling with the first trimester and the growing pains and the exhaustion and if I even ask for his help with something small he sighs or asks why can’t I do it. He didn’t even go to the babies first doctors appointment with me I was by myself and he made a big deal about the future appointments taking him away from work. I’ve just been feeling like he is looking at me and the baby as a burden. I can’t even talk to him about it cause when I try he yells that he’s just too stressed with everything.

I feel like crying. Idk if I’m just being dramatic and full of hormones or what but I just feel so confused right now.

He is a good person I think all of this just has him so overwhelmed. He’s in the middle of trying to sell his home so we can buy a house together and he says work is stressful.