Toddlers not wanting to poop!!😩

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Ok mamas..my son will be 3 in a few months, he isn’t potty trained, but a couple weeks ago decided he did not want to poop in his pants anymore (yay right??) but here’s the deal...he also doesn’t want to poop in the toilet!! He whines all day saying he has to poop, we’ll go sit on the toilet for approx. 5 seconds and he’s done trying😩..so my question to you all that have experienced anything similar is what have you done to get your kids pooping, and not holding it?!