Mil and I already did invites. But I see so many ppl are doing them with men included.

I was trying to plan something for him like a bbq and call it chuggies for Huggies since he really isn’t into girl events. He doesn’t have the slightest clue how to do this but I think it’s a fun idea for the men. Eat, watch the football game and let the women do the girly shit and instead of bringing alcohol bring a pack of diapers.

But I’m second guessing myself now. My shower is oct 7th. Should I merge them? My kids are teens so back them showers were for women. He said he doesn’t care either way. He thinks my idea is neat but we don’t have a backyard anymore plus it’s softball weekend, which I thought perfect! I’ll cook the team some food and they can do their guy thing.

Ideas??!!!!