Ladies, I need some advice/guidance right now 🙏😰

I’ve been dating my wonderful boyfriend for a little over a year now. He is everything I’ve ever wanted, but recently, I’ve been so overwhelmed by talks about the future. He’s planning on going to grad school, I’m finishing school and soon to be employed (crossing my fingers). I feel like we are doing a great job keeping it together through rough patches, but it can get really hard sometimes. I feel as though I’m in a whirlpool, just dizzy and overwhelmed. There’s so much to do and so many things to think about, and I’m at a loss sometimes. I love him with everything I have, but it’s just so much to process, I never thought a relationship would be so overwhelming. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.