My S/O and I - is this healthy?

My S/O and I bicker SO much... on things that are not even relevant and silly.

Yesterday, he said he didn’t agree with the fact that bickering this much was healthy. I told him it was. I was wondering what you ladies think of this?

I told him it’s not like the bickering starts because someone makes it start - it just happens and he agreed with that he just said he wishes it would /stop/.

I’m not sure how to exactly make it stop - I want to because I don’t like hurting him or us and I know he feels the same. Do you have any advice? Why are we bickering so much? Is this normal?

EDIT - I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder so I’m nervous about everything. Communication is hard because he can say one thing and mean that one thing but my GAD tells me he is saying something else or thinking otherwise when he is not and thus a bickering or fight starts. I’m tired of it too but having GAD is not easy and I’m glad he sticks around even though I’m partly psycho. I just feel terrible and it isn’t all my fault, he starts it too sometimes but it just drives me nuts. We love each other so so much that this bickering is nothing - it’s just tiring and we’ve both had enough.