When 2 of your best friends are expecting

Question

And your husband has been diagnosed with azoospermia 😩 it's soooo hard to even talk with my friends right now. I don't want to be a bad friend because I'm happy for them but so sad for myself. My emotions are all over the place. Anyone else struggling with this right now?! How do you handle it?!

Answer

I just found out one of my best friends is pregnant with her third baby and they weren’t even trying. My husband and I have been trying for 19 months. We found out he has zero sperm count earlier this year. Last month we finally found out he has bilateral varicocele and we have surgery scheduled to repair it in a few weeks. When she told me she was pregnant I was of course happy for her but after I got to my car I balled my eyes out and called my sister. It’s so hard to keep faith sometimes. I know it will happen eventually I just have to remind myself it’s just not my time yet. Even though I so badly want it to be. It’s okay to have those bad days because it’s going to happen. My sister is my outlet. Her and her husband tried for over 3 years before she finally got pregnant. It helps to have someone to talk to who has experienced fertility issues because they know what you’re going through.

When 2 of your best friends are expecting

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