Pregnant to a complete idiot 🤦🏼‍♀️

Been with this guy for 2 years but we broke up when we found out I’m pregnant because he didn’t want the baby but I couldn’t go through a termination. I told him he had the option to walk away I’d respect his wishes and I hope he’d respect mine. We stopped speaking but recently he started reaching out to me again 7 months down the line. I get the impression he wants to be in my life but he’s not interested in our baby so I made a point of asking him his intentions. He said he thinks he’s ready to face the situation but he’s scared. He seemed to be struggling with it so I told him what I’d like I said I would like him to put his name on the birth certificate because I feel like that’s important for the baby when he grows up to give him a sense of identity even if his dad chose not to be involved. I said I’d like for our baby to know him and not be a stranger. He said he will be involved in the baby’s life but he won’t put his name on the birth certificate. His reasoning? Because I’ll take pictures of it and hold it against him! I have no idea what I would gain from doing that or why he’d be worried about that. I told him if I wanted to take him to court for child support I could whether his name is on the birth certificate or not but that isn’t my intention I don’t want or need his money. When I explained my reasons why I wanted him on there he said “The baby can’t read so what difference does it make”

Then the icing on the cake. He was acting like I’d done him terribly wrong by keeping the baby and I reminded him he’d done some terrible things to me and I’d never done anything wrong to him other than keep a baby which was not a decision I made in order to hurt him to which he responded “So what, you can move on from the things I did. It’s not like forced you to have a baby!” Guys I just can’t. Maybe our baby and I would be better without any involvement from his stupid ass!

May I just add he already has two children and another one that he claims isn’t is because the mother refuses to do a DNA test. He’s involved with the 2 he claims, he gives the impression he’s the best dad ever but he’s forever having problems with the other moms (yes they’re all to different women)

He kept screaming at me that he knows he is our baby’s dad he doesn’t see why he has to sign a piece of paper to prove it. I told him he doesn’t have to do anything that’s just what I’d like. I understand it may be a strange request but it makes me sad at the thought of our baby looking at a blank space on his birth certificate where his fathers name should be.

He was saying he is going to be involved but it sounded like he was forcing himself I told him the amount of negative energy he was expressing it was better if he didn’t hold himself to anything until he’s ready to let the anger go. He replied yes but if I say I don’t want to be involved you’re going to be upset and everyone will think I’m bad. 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️