I'm having a hard time with my in-laws watching my child. I asked them to bath her when they have her because I want to start her having a routine but my mil said they will only do it when they have time. I'm so mad because we pay them to watch her. I feel like if I'm paying them, then they should be able to do as I requested. Then when I brought up day care, they said my comments come off as being unappreciative. I feel like I will not be able to tell them what and what not to do with my daughter and thats why Id rather put her in day care than have them watch her. Our relationship is getting strained. I'm so mad right now. My husband keeps taking their side. I feel so alone and just tired. Am I wrong for wanting to take my daughter to day care?