He’s confused

We went through so much, we both did stuff but after our long break we’ve decided to try again but first he wanted me to prove to him that I was going to change and I have, we had plans for the day but he texted me out of no where that he was very confused and was honest, he doesn’t want to hurt me and if I’m not willing to give him time to move on, honestly after our break I don’t need another one and I just don’t know what to do anymore, he has seen the change in me and I can’t even believe it myself because I was miserable before, I left it as “ okay I understand ttyl” and he hasn’t texted me back, we have a 3 year old and all I asked and prayed for was a family 😪