SORRY FOR THE LONG POST. I’ll be shocked if anyone reads this whole thing 😂

Okay, so to start off I love my mother in law and she is a lovely woman. I just think she has some issues... All while my husband and I were dating my MIL would bring up “anger issues”.... I never saw it... but I was always scared that maybe it would come out later........ Well when I finally see these “anger issues” I realize him getting mad is the appropriate response to what his family does to him. They pretty much attack him verbally and when he gets upset everyone is shocked... His response is usually raising his voice and swearing... I’ve never seen (or heard of) him physically hurting anyone. To me, it seems like she is calling the normal response to being verbally attacked “anger issues”.......

Yeah I am slowly realizing she has labeled all of her kids and her husband with some sort of issue or disability... The oldest daughter is very manipulative and condescending, I see that and I agree with my mother in law on that....But the second to the oldest is the sweetest woman I know and my mother in law has convinced her that she is missing part of her brain, all because her reflexes aren’t great..... She’s brainwashed the youngest son into thinking that their dad (my Father in law) is a piece of crap because he didn’t go to college and never had a “career” even though, (according to my husband,) they never went without necessities... and she has also convinced him that my father in law is missing part of his brain as well because he is a procrastinator... she walks alllll over him and he does everything she asks (forces) him to do... but if he doesn’t do it right when she says it, she gets so upset it makes no sense...

I’m just wondering if there is a condition that my mother in law has?

Have you guys ever heard of anything like this?

I am just blown away by all of this...

P.S All the kids are turned again my father in law except my husband... I received a text from my sister in law on Sunday saying that my mother in law was HEARTBROKEN because she asked my father in law to make her shelves for their bathroom and he was outside doing that but apparently he wasn’t doing it FAST ENOUGH..

There’s so many other scenarios I could write about on here but I think you guys get the picture..