any female ever gotten extreme back pain? i am completely aware that back aches or pain is common, but excruciating to the point you feel like your spine is going to give out? im not even trying to be overdramatic.. i was out with some pals a couple nights ago and i was standing up for only a few minutes and i felt like i was gonna collapse. didnt even really help laying down or getting off my feet. only ever happens close to when im due for my period