Bf refusing to pull out WTF

So long story short we were trying for a baby n it took a while I finally ended up pregnant but had a miscarriage. He wants to start trying right now right now again however I do not. I’m only 21, I feel like that was a wake up call to me it made me realize I shouldn’t be trying for a baby until I meet a few more life goals, he on the other hand doesn’t understand that n says well we’d have 9 months to get it together.... I do not want that stress on me which is part of the reason why I feel I miscarried I was working full time standing job n also super stressed. My next pregnancy I want to be pampered and taken care of not have to work or worry during n just focus on having my baby. And that will b a few years from now. We talked about this last night when he was holding me n he said so when r u gonna give me my baby I said idk I have more goals I need to meet n he literally ripped his body away from me n turned the other direction n went to bed.