A few months ago my friend asked me to be a bridesmaid in her Jamaica wedding. I said yes and then found out the cost so I’ve been on the fence about it ($2000 for 3 nights. That includes the $800 flight.)

Now I found out I’m 5 weeks pregnant. During the travel I would be 5 months. The risks are probably low but now on top of the cost I’m worried about Zika and other things. Mostly the money though. We could use this for our baby and all we’re going to need to buy for our first child. She’s my friend since first grade and I’m so scared to tell her. I don’t want to lose her as a friend. 🙁🙁 Thoughts? Thanks!