My husband has been losing weight. And even tho I'm trying, I see no progress. I feel so big and fat compared to him. It takes little to no effort to wrap my arms around him anymore. It has been my biggest fear for a long time that I will be bigger than my husband. I have spent my whole life being bigger than everyone around me until I lost some weight and now I'm going to be bigger than everyone again. And no matter what I do to lose weight, he will always be ahead of me because men lose faster and easier than women. I just can't take it!