LOW SEX DRIVE

i have such a lowwwww sex drive and its soo annoying🤦🏻‍♂️ i can never get horny , which means i’m not wet so everytime me and my boo have sex we HAVE TO use lube & that’s getting so annoying. i want to take a female viagra but i’m on birth control pills and idk if it would affect it lol ( anybody know? i tried to talk to someone at parenthood and they just ignored my question)

and pls tell me i’m not the only one that feels this way because it’s so annoying & also an insecurity