How to tell my mum nicely I don't want her there for the birth. I'm getting annoyed cause I've told her. I don't want any visitors at the hospital and not trying to be rude but this is our first baby and I'm learning here and more visitors is going to stress me out. my partners parents are coming to hospital but just before I'm released and they driving us back home so we will have like 6 hrs before we see them pretty much. I don't mind my mum coming to hospital after she's born. and I want a tiny bit of time to recover before visitors.