My ex-best friend was my best friend for 7 years. We met when I was 12 and she was 14. We are almost 21 and 23 now. When we were best friends, we talked every day. Hung out all the time. Told each other everything. She’s the exact opposite of me, (she’s extroverted, I’m introverted, she’s boy-crazy, I didn’t date, that kind of thing) so we had fights but ultimately we loved each other like sisters.

Then, last year in April, we moved in together. Our friendship had lasted a 1,000 mile difference when she moved away. I moved in with her, her bf of 4 months, and his best friend (who is now my fiancé).

We were not good living partners. We would fight about things like doing the dishes and cleaning. Because both me and my fiancé just liked being alone and staying in our room (which we shared) she accused me of choosing him over her. She just stopped being a good best friend, and we cut each other off when me and my fiancé up and left. She was pissed at me.

It took a lot of months but I think in January of this year she texted us and apologized. Since then, we’re on speaking terms and everything is okay but our convos are short and infrequent.

It can’t go back to the way it used to be but I really want to be good friends with her again. I have no one now except my fiancé and am desperate for a platonic friendship. Should I bother texting her and what should I even say? I’m so bad at socializing, which is why I have no friends.