I am 21 years old and have never had my own party that parents haven’t been at. I decided that this year I was going to invite a few friends over that just like me, also have severe anxiety and social anxiety. It was supposed to be a small, calm, fun, friend party. I told him about the party.

Well, what does he go and do? He invites his freaking mom!! Like are you fucking kidding me? She is a huge anxiety trigger for me. She hates me. Nothing I do is ever good enough. I do not want to be around her. Now I can’t tell him to tell her she can’t come. That will fuel her hate me fire. The party is going to suck now. I am so upset!!