Men have it easier in sex

Yes sex is wonderful but there are some nights that I am just to Damn lazy to have sex!!! My hubby doesnt understand. 1) I wear more clothes thn him so it takes longer to get off. 2) especially being pregnant I dont feel like doing a damn thing. 3) after he goes I have to catch the semen with his underwear to make sure it doesnt get on my side of the bed...then go to the bathroom get it all out so I dont feel all gross and wet down there all night. Then go back in the room and get dressed. Like it's a 8 minute ordeal after sex. Literally. And all he has to do is wipe his dick off and then get new underwear and go back in bed back to his game on his phone....and he wonders why I'm to lazy for sex. Because it's so much to it!!!! Haha forgive me I do love sex. But so much work!!