So me and my best friend are having a disagreement and I need some opinions as to who is right or wrong.

While in College I was crushing hard on this Alpha (that’s his frat) and I’m not going to lie I still am. So basically for about 4 years now. I never talked to him because we were both in relationships now we’re single but he doesn’t live here anymore so I left the situation alone. But my best friend know how much I like him shit I used to talk about him CONSTANTLY !

Well apparently he slid in her dms and she wants to respond. I mean I can’t tell her what to do but I wouldn’t like it if she does. But she feel like it’s not fair because I can’t call dibs on a guy that I just like. And she claims if it’s was the nigga she liked in my dms she would be happy for me. But honestly I wouldn’t talk to him because of the fact the she likes him and she doesn’t believe me.

Honestly I wouldn’t care but this situation is deeper to me because guys always over looked me all my life because they wanted my friends and it was always guys I liked. And if it wasn’t my friends then it was my sister. Then this one girl who I really thought was my best friend stopped talking to me and got in a relationship with my ex who I still had feelings for.

I told her that guys always go for her over me and she doesn’t think so because she apparently thinks I’m prettier than her. But when we go out together they always look at and stop her, never me 🙄

What y’all think ?

UPDATE: There’s more to this situation tho. She’s currently in a relationship and has been for years. She only want to talk to him because they have been going through problems lately

UPDATE X2: Cause y’all not hearing me. I don’t care if he doesn’t like me, he prolly never even noticed me. It’s the fact that this is my best friend. I would never talk to anyone she likes. To me thats law. It doesn’t mean dibs or anything like that to me. I just care more about the fact that if you liked him then it’s not my place to go and talk to him and if I did I’ll feel like I’m flaunting it in her face !