Should I tell?

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My sister told me, my other sisters and my mom that she’s been cheating on her husband with a random man from Instagram. while her kids are in the house!!! I feel that this puts them in danger.... she is also not using protection with this man, which could put her husband at risk for STDs. I’ve told my sister my concerns and tried to give her advice without being judgmental and she says she doesn’t care if she’s hurting her husband, the marriage etc BUT she also said she has no intention of leaving (or telling) her husband because that would mean she would need to get a job....... Obviously, there’s something really wrong with her.. I’m wondering if I should tell her husband.. on one hand I feel like it’s not my place and I should just let it play out.. but on the other, I would want someone to tell me if I were being cheated on and I know I’ll hate myself if something happens to the kids... WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! 
If you think I should leave it alone, how can I make sure the kids are safe? 
If you think I should tell him please give me advice on how to tell him.

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If she refuses to tell him and has no regrets, I would tell him. I would definitely want to know, especially if the other person had no intentions on telling me. It may not be your place but the way she is bragging about it, makes it your place.

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I would tell🤷
You're sister is obviously a selfish hoe and doesn't care about anyone but herself. Husband deserves to know and he should get full custody because your sister is NOT responsible enough to be a parent.

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I would maybe document HER saying it so it isn’t “he said/she said”. The husband may end up siding with the wife and you may never see your nieces/nephews again. People that have the ability to cheat and lie about it without feeling any guilt often have underlying mental health issues that would make it easy to manipulate their spouse.

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I would tell him. I believe that it is everyone's place to out a cheater to the cheater's SO when they find out. You'll rarely find someone who would rather not know.

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You tell her “what your doing is not right!” Either you tell him or I will! Regardless if
It is your sister or not, right is right, and wrong is wrong.

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Unpopular opinion here but I personally wouldn’t say anything especially since she’s YOUR sister ! You’re going to cause a lot of rift raft within your own family and what’s go makes matters worse is if he decides to stay with her after finding out . I get that what’s she’s doing is completely wrong but once you open that door there’s no going back . You and your sisters relationship will never be the same and theirs a huge chance you’ll never see your nieces or nephews again . She’s going to get herself caught up because everything that goes in the dark will come to the light . Plus kids talk , they’ll eventually open their mouths and tell on her without ever realizing it !

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Tell him.

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From what I have read. Ask your self what is more important. The kids save or never see them again?
I would tell but I would want someone to tell me.  I would also want the kids save even if that means I may never see them.

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I think that whichever way this goes, you cannot be faulted. If you tell, he has a right to know and the kids should be safe. If you don’t tell, it’s not your place and that’s your sister. Can you live with your sister being upset with you for however long?

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