39+3 - finger tip dilated and not effaced. Who’s with me?

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I’m 39+3 today and feeling very discouraged like this baby is never coming out. I’m only finger tip dilated and not effaced. Who’s with me? I’ve had no signs of labor other than some sporadic cramping and Braxton Hicks. If you’ve experienced this with a previous pregnancy and suddenly went into labor, share your story. I know my situation doesn’t necessarily mean anything as some women can be dilated for weeks and others can go from 0-60 in a few hours. #stayinghopeful 🤞🤞🤞