Pregnant and wanting it

Been pregnant for 13 weeks now and after a 3-month-no-sex, my SO and I did it. The problem is, we didn't get to enjoy it that much because I got so tight I felt like I was devirginized once more. Is it just me or was it normal? Does this mean I don't get to touch my SO over this pregnancy? Im a first timer so bear with me. Thank you so much!