I have a competitive sister - in - law ...

Soo long story short , my husbands brother is married to some girl . And they have three kids now when i married my husband they only had one and literally i got pregnant before she did with her second , i had my son jan 19 she had her son feb , then i get pregnant not to long after and so does she , had my daughter march 18 and she had her daughter april ... and til this day she thinks its a competition of who does this who does that , im in korea shes in wa and i carved our pumpkins like two wks ago and i guess today she happened to carve her pumpkins.... literally all i did was post the pictures of our pumpkins today 5 hrs before she posted hers and she msgs me telling me i need to stop copying her .... like wtf 😂 how was i supposed to know she was gonna post her damn pumpkins if i posted mine 5 hrs before she posted hers ? I just cant deal with it ... honestly theres nothing to complete with but she just makes herself sound so perfect cause she has two cars, lives with her rich parents, works , and has 3 kids ... making it sound like being a stay at home mom aint a fucken job . Idk how to deal with this shit any longer lol 😆