Trying for our first baby!🤞🏻

Little back story: Mr and I started dating , ended up moving in together , in the begging of us moving in together we had our problems, ex decided she still wanted to be in the picture (the day I was going to go take my iud out) I was so very sad it was all happening because Mr and I were already planning on convincing but he was at work and i was home so I decided not to go take it out of anger and stress , we both had to have a really serious conversation with her , and it seemed it was all okay at the end but some time after she decided to text me again trying to put things in my head that he still talked to her and this time I did not cry, did not get mad , I asked for proof. She didn’t have any so then I let Mr know she was still bothering me and he was at work so he ended up walking out! Jeopardizing his job to make sure I was okay. She’s now out of our life’s for good, blocked, deleted, living far from us. We’re doing very good in our jobs, and with saving ! Emotionally we’re very connected and physically

NOW; Mr and I have been wanting a baby for a while now but due to work and money and time we havnt really been ready , but our thing was ( I’d ask him if we were ready to take my iud out and he’d give me a yes or a no, the last time I asked he said YES. And we talked and we’re now ready for a new addition) YESTERDAY 10/22 I took my iud out and checked myself to make sure I was A-OKAY! And thank God I am ! This is where the help comes in

HELP; this would be our first baby and i want to really get my body and everything else prepared , I’ve done my own research but where else to get better advice from mommies and mommies to be and every other beautiful lady on here!