What could be wrong?

Question

Is there something that could be wrong with me if I’m never horny? Never in the mood and can never have an orgasm with a partner? Even when I’m alone I’m not and porn doesn’t even do much for me I just don’t get it. Please help me understand. Doctors just say I’m fine I’m probably stressed but I’ve been this way my whole life but all they want to do is put me on aniexty and depression meds 😒 I don’t want to take them because they lower sex drive and I don’t need it any lower than what it already is. I even tried being single and being with other people than my 8 year relationship I had. Still nothing. I’m helpless 😩

Answer

Don’t be afraid to try anti anxiety/depression meds because you think they’ll decrease your libido, it’s not necessarily true. Yes that is a possible side effect from SOME, but that’s not all of them and it’s not a side effect everyone gets. It all depends on the specific med, it’s dosage and how your body reacts to it. 
From personal experience I know the meds I’m on now don’t effect me like that but one I previously was on did. Also I actually find my sexual encounters are more intense, my body gets going very quickly.
Also, if your on a birth control it’s possible that could be the wrong one for you, it could be messing up the wrong hormone levels. Listen to your Dr!

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There’s a good amount of people who also feel this way, and it’s known as asexuality. As far as anyone can tell there’s nothing wrong with it. It’s just different.

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Maybe try switching birth control or find a medication besides that that can help. My mother ended up having to switch hers

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