Trying to make this as un-bias as possible. I don’t think I necessarily do more, or he does more. I’m just keen to know your opinion if our life seems fair or if one of us needs to step up!

So he works full time, 40 hours. I work part time, 2-3 days a week.

He pays for our rent, bills and food and himself. (Phone bill, clothes, toiletries, train fair for work and computer parts/games/updates)

I pay for our daughter (diapers/wipes, clothes, toys, birthday & Xmas presents, outings and stuff) as well as myself (phone bill, clothes, coffee/lunch whilst out with my daughter, makeup, toiletries)

Obviously he gone 5 days out of the week at work, not to mention commute time.

I, for the most part (aside from when I’m at work obviously) am the homemaker, I do all chores and housework and also take care of our daughter - this includes when my husband is home, I still do all the evening/nightly chores and childcare. However, my husband cooks dinner ..(I despise and am awful at cooking, however he enjoys it.. otherwise I would make dinner)

Does this sound like a fair lifestyle?

Sometimes I feel horrible and lazy like I’m not doing enough and other times I wish he would help more out.

Then obviously family have their opinionated says on who does what and who does more when they don’t actually know the ins and out so I really just wanted an opinion based on all the information I have provided!