Would you let your boyfriend talk to females he has either had sex with before, or had a “thing” with?

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Why the fuck does he need to talk to them anyway?
I'm not against him having friends that are chicks but, I see no reason to converse with someone you used to fuck with before we got together.

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Let your boyfriend?! What do you mean let... he ain’t yours to control. If he loves and respects you he won’t talk to them but it ain’t your decision whether you ‘allow’ it.

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I don’t “let” my partner do anything. He can do what he pleases and talk to whom he pleases. I trust him and his ability to make and respect boundaries in his interpersonal relationships.

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I don’t think it would bug me if my boyfriend talked to someone he fooled around with.
I’m very close friends with a lot of guys I have slept with. One of them we now share a nephew and my brother is marrying his sister. 
It’s all in the past. I’d be upset if he was texting her all the time or giving her attention that should be mine, but once in awhile about innocent things, whatever.

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I actually encourage him to have relationships with his exes lol kill them with kindness lol 😂 
I had his ex do my hair for our wedding.

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Oh fuck no, there ex's for a reason

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Can someone who votes “yes” please try to justify that answer? I’m curious.

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This is one of those times I wonder if the word “talk” has a slang meaning I am just not aware of. Because if you are asking whether your SO is allowed to simply converse with their ex, how do you think it would be ok to control another human being like that?

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I wouldn't "let" him do shit, but I'm not staying with someone who thinks that behavior is respectful or appropriate while in a relationship.

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let. humm I would question why he thinks he need to take to them in the first place. if he had any respect for you he would not even be wanting to.

Would you let your boyfriend talk to females he has either had sex with before, or had a “thing” with?

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