I made a guest list for my son's first birthday party and with just my immediate family, dads side of the family (aunts, uncles, cousins), some of my in laws (half of them aren't invited due to drug use and theft), and only a few close friends it's over 80 people! My dad is 1 of 10 and I am very close with half of my cousins and aunts and uncles and dont even like some of the other half but I have to invite everyone or it would be a nightmare. I dont know what to do though because I want to just have the party at my home, casual pizza and cupcakes but 80 people would be such a tight squeeze!

What are you doing for your LO's birthday?