Doing it all

I can’t be the only one that tends to wonder why us women have to do it all. Why do we have to carry the baby for 9 months, give birth, go through recovery, provide food (if breastfeeding) etc...! Why aren’t the men made to do anything!!! They get off to easy! They have the pleasure in making the baby (so do we) but they don’t have to go through any of the actual part of “having” a baby! I’m a first time mom here and been feeling a bit overwhelmed lately. We had friends over last night for a bon Fire and while he’s outside enjoying himself, I’m inside with the baby. Idk it just bothered me...he doesn’t have to worry about drinking, or feeding the baby (I’m breastfeeding) etc...am I overacting...? Just having a hard time juggling it all I guess