I'm tired of the shaming of black women having "too many kids", but when its a white woman with 8 or more kids, she is praised as World's best mom. I'm tired of people fussing about women going on government assistance. Like, just because you have a job that pays 20/hr. Don't mean everyone is in the same situation as you. Black people can have just the same right as to have kids as other race of people. People worried about tax dollars that are going to children and a family that may need it, but when it comes to that bullshit as wall Donald Trump wants to build nobody fussing about their tax dollars! People just been making Me so angry lately. The comments I seen especially coming from black women is so sickening! Racist people are already trying to get rid of us and trying to push abortions in the black community. You are helping the cause! Tired of ignorance, stupidity, and immaturity. If you don't want kids or one a few kids that's fine, but don't shame women that have 7or more kids. That's complete bullshit every child has a right to be here. Its God's choice to bless you with a child. Birth control is not 100% full proof or condoms because they can break.

I'm on my first child and I'm 21 and can't imagine someone shaming me because I chose to have a kid. Then, women have the nerve to shame another woman, but when someone claps back at them, all the sudden they mad and trying to find reason to justify their words. If you didn't want the heat then, you should have kept your opinions to yourself! Sorry about the long post, its just I'm tired of the stereotypes of black women not knowing who their baby daddy is or they live off the government. We need to stop mom shaming in general, its not cute. Its condescending and disrespectful. Their is no right way to raise kids or how many kids to have long as those kids are fed, loved, and is in a safe environment is all that matters! All this breastfeeding war, cloth diapers war, or how a mother should do things. That's stupid. If the doctor didn't say anything about. Mind your own business! You are not a doctor or a baby expert. No mother is perfect, if a girl wants to have a child in her 20 and have 5 by the time they make 28 its their business. They are grown, your are not God or their parents.