Ex sending mixed messages?

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Okay so we’ve been split up over 2 weeks now.. I’m 25 weeks pregnant with his baby. 
He came mine last week stayed over, we watched films, we had sex but it was passionate sex. Then I get mixed messages off him.. he’s still talking to me but it’s taking forever for him to reply. 
Yesterday he comes to mine again and stays over. We had food, watched films, cuddled etc and yep once again we had sex.. he was calling me babe, constantly kissing me. I ask him if he’s going to reply to me properly after this because it feels like I’m being used, he claims he’s definitely not using me (I was too scared to ask him anything else as I didn’t want to mess things up) 
He told me this morning that he was going out with friends, didn’t leave mine till dinner time, I had a few replies and again nothing more.. so I thought of course maybe he’s just out friends and busy. 
I texted him this and I’m worried I’ve made it even worse 😕 but the mixed messages are driving me insane..
What’s your opinion? Have I messed this up? Is he using me? Is he confused with what he wants? Help a girl out!!

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He’s using you. He knows you’ll have sex with him. Then he disappears.

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He’s using you girl! I wouldn’t message him again and move on. You deserve so much better.. for you and the baby 💕

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Seem like he’s mostly like using you for comfort & sex. Since your having his child and still lingering, he knows, he’s always welcome back regardless.

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I am going through the same thing. I am 29 weeks pregnant and he moved out 2 months ago. The first month he would come over once a week and we would hang out, be affectionate and of course have sex. He was being flaky when we weren’t together, taking a while to respond to messages and such. A few weeks ago he said that I should get tested for stds since he thinks he might have caught something. Apparently he had been sleeping with other girls the entire time he was still sleeping with me. Luckily I am clean, but it was a huge awakening and I have cut him off for good. I only respond to his texts when it concerns our 8 year old daughter or him asking questions about the pregnancy. Other than that I do not want to talk to him or see him. When he comes to pick up or drop off our daughter I don’t even look at him. I am so disgusted that he would put me and the baby at risk by being so careless. I guess I will let him witness his son being born, but only when it’s time to push and that’s it. I don’t need him by my side for the entire labor. Once I bring the baby home, he can visit as much as he wants, but no over nights. I hope you stay strong and cut off your ex for good, he is using you and probably sleeping with other girls. Protect yourself, your baby and your heart. You deserve better and will find better. Let him go.

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I’m sorry but you say you don’t want to push him incadr you upset him for god sake your pregnant with his baby you have every right to ask him all these questions if he can have sex with you and let you carry his baby he can answer a question and be honest with you and if he can’t then he is not worth your love or Care and there is always some out there who will care and respect you there will always be someone to replace him x

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What a loser. Talk about the baby.using you for sex without doubt. Do not cave. You can find a real man

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Desperate. He knows you aren’t going anywhere. Have some dignity girl! Let him know he better act right or he’s going to be the one to lose you!!!!

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