I'm aware of it now, so I have some control but I don't know how to make it go away. I still have crushes on people I wouldn't ordinarily be attracted to, though I love my partner and would never act on those feelings. What do I? Does anyone else experience this? ---------------------------------------------------------- ---------------------------------------------------------- I think I'm like this cause I'm more confident than I used to be and I like the perceived attention ("perceived" cause some of it might be people who are into me and some of it might just be me pickin up signals where none are) and I wanna feel more of that feeling of being desired and my partner being envied cause its a confidence booster. Thoughts???