Ok ladies. My SO and I have been together 2 years. Of course I have exes. One of these exes (let's call him Liam) and I have slept together. I didn't tell my SO about this because why does it matter? It was forever ago. I just told him that he was some guy I dated for a while. No biggie. Technically lying by omission, I guess? Over the last two years, me and Liam have said the classic "hey, how are you"'s a few times just because we are still friends. I've always told my SO when Liam messages me and never had anything. Before our relationship, I was with a really, really abusive man and I ended up emotionally cheating on my SO in the first few months of us being together with my ex. It was a poor choice on my part, I was just so wrapped around my exes finger. I came clean about it a week or so later. Fast forward to now... We are trying to get rid of our dog. Or as the more specific agreement states, we were going to try for 2 months to find him an exceptionally good home. If we can't, we will keep him and make things work. In the mean time, I've been posting him on Facebook and what not. It's been a fight because I don't think he's good for us but my SO loves him. But at the end of the day, that's what we agreed on. A few days ago, Liam asked me some questions about divorce in our state because his wife was leaving him. I told my SO about the conversation so I wasn't hiding anything. My SO doesn't like the fact that I talk to someone I slept with and dates but he realizes its controlling and it was so long ago so he hasn't said anything about it. Liam and I exchange a conversation maybe twice a year. So anyways, he's messaged at least once a day for the last 3 days. Tonight, I posted a picture of one of my dogs new puppies on Snapchat and he said he wanted one. We got to talking about dogs and I mentioned Duke, the one we are trying to get rid of. He told me that he would make some phone calls to some of his active duty (military) friends and see if anyone is looking for a dog. I'm thinking GREAT! So much easier and we have a great chance of Duke going to a really good home rather than a stranger on Facebook. I told my SO and he was PISSEDDDD. He said that it was a personal thing between him and I and although we have an agreement, it's a sensitive topic and I'm rubbing salt in the wounds of me already talking to an ex. He said that he's already upset that I'm talking to an ex and to bring him "into" a sensitive topic between him and I is inappropriate. I don't see the difference in that and me posting Duke on Facebook. He's so upset over it and I just don't get it. But I also know I'm insensitive sometimes. Anyone have any outsider opinions?