Baby momma drama.

joanna

Ok guys this might be sort of long. And annoying but i really hope to get some input on other people perspectives....

Ive been with my now fiance for 2 years now. He had a previous relationship, were he had 3 kids. Different customs due to parents and ignorance he thought after he knocked her up the first time he had to stay with her for ever. His mom has even told me that the baby momm would treat him like shit and call him all these sorta of names anywho...

Well since we started living together the BM would tell me over the phone that she still loves him and that she is waiting for him to come back to marry her... ( she lives in Mexico) and we are here in the US. We've have gotten extremely verbal over the phone and he always tells me, dont get down to her level. And to give me mt place he has canceled international calls... And we both have no social media.. He never wanta to talk to her.. And when he wants to talk to the kids she always enda up on the phone talking to him telling him to send money to call the kids n bla bla bla....

I'm not against his kids at all... I have set an agreement with him that we will send her mo ey every 2 weeks to help her out with the kids... Because 1. They r his kids too.... N 2. It's 3 kids...

Since me and him are starting to really settle because we now have my first baby... We r trying to start a lofe together got an apartment trying to survive with my high risk pregnancy and not being able to work... And even like that i was baby sitting to have a little income....

Ok so this Bitch keeps calling and requesting money.. Like oh the kids are sick..oh the kids need this and that... And to meeeee i personally think she should work and try to give those kids a future regardless if he helps her or not... And anything that comes from dad.. Take it as a blessing and keep going.. But bitch dont work... And expect MY MAN to send her money everytime she needs or wants some.. Im not okay with that shit...at all...

And on the other note. She always trash talks about him.. And lowers him all the way to the ground.. Im a protective as bitch n no one will lower my bf like that.. Ive seen him stand up for me too.. I communicate with her because he has no international calls.. And me and him decided that i will be the one sending the money to her biweekly and i do.. And i have proof. And that after almost 2 years still bothers her... And we go at it every other weekend... What will you guys do in my sitiation... Please any input is welcome..