Anyone else being pressured by family and friends to announce? We’re choosing to keep our pregnancy off of social media until after Christmas (I’ll be 20 weeks), for reasons due to my job, and one of my fiancé’s aunts will not stop asking me if she can say anything yet.. And yes she means on Facebook I’ve already told her she’s free to talk about it within the family. In my opinion you don’t say a word until mom and dad announce it and when they choose to do that it is their decision. Like god people it’s my baby. Er just needed to vent