Abstaining is a superpower

so i figured out something really helpful last night - i’ll admit, i am a bit of a sex addict. and i realized it hasn’t been helping me a lot lately. i realized by abstaining, i actually felt really good about myself. i know most of you are like “wow dumbass. i’ve known that for years.” but it has given me some sort of drive i didn’t have before. like this sexual energy built up helps me achieve things i want to achieve rather than wasting it on someone who doesn’t give a fuck about me. trust me, i love sex. but i’m going to really take this time to focus on myself. #nonutnovember