My boyfriend never wants to foreplay. I always try and mess with him before we ever do anything but he doesn’t do the same back then he gets mad because I’m not wet enough and says he doesn’t turn me on.

Every time we try to have sex it either ends up in him being mad that I’m not wet enough or he says it’s too hot in the room (which I’m on top, but he initiated the sex so it’s not like I’m forcing myself on him) so we stop.

Which I make him cum every other day with a blowjob or handjob. He doesn’t give me anal and when he attempts to finger me once in a blue moon it just feels awkward and makes me squirm to get away cause it just doesn’t feel good.

I just feel like I’m not getting pleased at all and I don’t want to say anything to him because I don’t want to make him feel insecure or that I’m just in it for the sex which I’m not but it’d just be nice for him to focus on pleasing me for once. Idk if i should stop giving him blowjobs and handjobs so maybe he’ll be more into the sex or know how I feel but I also don’t want him going to porn or something because he isn’t pleased. Idk any help?