About to give up...

Caroline

I just moved to this new city and I don't know anyone but I really need someone to talk to, and I don't want to get my family and close friends involved in this 😥 "drama"

They would give me great advice but I think I need help from people I don't know so I can hear their opinions (it's better) and their perspective.

You know what I mean?

My husband is very cool and awesome and I could say he's almost perfect but....the only thing I don't like about him is when we start a conversation and it turns into an argument because he always wants to be right, even though he is not, and forces me to "admit" that I am wrong ... 🤔 When we both know that's not how things happened... It's very frustrating , we sit and I talk to him , explain to him it's ok to be wrong sometimes, but he won't accept it. Why is this? I've had friends like this too and it's just too draining for me. I could go ahead and say " you know what yes you're right" but the reason I don't it's because if I let this happen, it will keep happening more often and he will think he's a success, when in reality we are all humans and we make mistakes.

By the way this isn't about cheating or anything, (you can roll your eyes here next....) Its about very stupid things like:(for example) there was a bag of laundry that said dirty on it, he thought it was there for 2 months, and I washed it yesterday.... and he was arguing that only when he asked me to do it I did it.. when in reality it was the bag of clothes I need for my new job lol... And if he doesnt "win" the argument he gets so mad and starts walking away and we start fighting. I'm so fed up.

You can say he needs to grow up , (on this yes) yes I totally agree, but he's not really childish/stupid as I make him sound...

Please help, I don't know what to do or what to say, I really want him to stop thinking he's the god almighty pure perfection .